TMI Tuesday – The Thrills and Comfort of Sex

The Comfort and Thrill of Sex

1. How do you feel about giving anal sex (penetration with penis, finger or sex toys)?
a. I love it.
b. I enjoy it.
c. I’m ok with it.
d. I don’t really enjoy it.
e. I don’t enjoy it at all.
f. I have never given anal sex.
g. I have never given anal sex, but would like to start.

F – I have never given anal sex. There were a few time were I played with Forbidden Fruit’s ass while giving him a hand job, but I never penetrated.

2. How do you feel about receiving anal sex (penetration with penis, finger or sex toys)?
a. I love it.
b. I enjoy it.
c. I’m ok with it.
d. I don’t enjoy it at all.
e. I have never received anal sex.
f. I have never received anal sex, but would like to start.

I am between C and D on this one, if that makes any sense. I have had it with only one person (Toby on several occasions) and each one was more painful than the last. He took no time in prepping my ass and refused to use lube. In fact, the first time that I gave him permission to fuck my ass and handed him the lube, he took my virginity instead becasue he decided that lube was inconvenient. I would definitely like to do it right though, and see how I really like it.

3. How do you feel about getting undressed in front of a new lover, for the first time, as he/she watches you?
a. It’s a turn on for me.
b. It turns me on a little bit.
c. I like it, but only because it gets him/her going.
d. It does nothing for me.
e. I don’t like doing it because I am shy.
f. I don’t like doing it because I think it’s immoral/improper.

E – I am very shy when it comes to getting undressed in front of someone for the first time., I am more aroused by undressing each other. That is hot!

4. Do you express your sexual pleasure with moans, groans, sighs, and other noises (provided that you are actually turned on)?
a. Yes, each time I have sex (90-100% of the time).
b. Yes, on most occasions (70-89% of the time).
c. Yes, on some occasions (40-69% of the time).
d. Yes, on a few occasions (10-39% of the time).
e. Yes, but only on special occasions (1-9% of the time).
f. Never, not even when I am really turned on.

Probably between A and B on this one. It feels so long ago since I was with a partner that I don’t really remember.

5. Do you talk to your partner in a sexually explicit way?
a. Talking dirty is one of our favorite activities.
b. Occasionally, I like to talk dirty with my partner, and I do it with ease.
c. I talk dirty with my partner, but it feels awkward.
d. I would like to talk dirty with my partner, but I don’t dare for fear of being judged or ridiculed.
e. I would like to talk dirty with my partner, but she/he isn’t into it.
f. I don’t talk in such a way because I think it is inappropriate.
g. I don’t talk in such a way because I can’t bring myself to do it.

A – I love talking dirty.

6. What kind of animal do you most sound like when building to a climax?
a. quiet little mouse
b. low moaning wolf
c. screeching beluga whale

I guess B, but that doesn’t seem right. I am normally pretty quiet because I don’t want my room mate to hear me masturbating, but when I have the house to myself I love to hear myself build and moan as loud as feels natural.

Bonus: Which do you prefer comfort sex or thrill-seeking sex? Why?

I have had both, and comfort sex only a handful of times because Will had a low sex drive. I have to say I loved the intimacy of being with a steady boyfriend and look forward to having that again someday. Though I must say, I have had some pretty awesome thrill sex sessions too (In the Woods, threesomes, etc).

Comfort seekers value deep intimacy, quiet engagement and trust over time of familiar relationships. For them sex is best as a safe, loving nurturing space.*
Thrill seekers value wild energy, adventure and novelty; they are willing to try open relationships, testing themselves outside average sexual practices. These folks crave a place to push the boundaries of new experiences.*

*Adapted from Susan Mernit’s blog

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About Sweetendirty

I am a super sweet and very dirty 26 year old bi girl. I love to share my stories about the dirty and naughty things I do and the things I want to do.
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One Response to TMI Tuesday – The Thrills and Comfort of Sex

  1. That you had such an awful experience with anal makes us sad. The notion that someone would be given the go-ahead and then do it improperly, in such a way as to cause harm or discomfort to the recipient, blows my mind. I can’t imagine taking such a gift for granted.

    Your answer to #6 was really hot. And your bonus answer was very eye-opening. 🙂

    -Jack

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